We all make the decisions we need to make with whatever physical/psychological/spiritual/other capacities we have at the time. The decisions are not right, they are not wrong, they just are. I don’t want to be praised for making the right decisions anymore than I want to be told that I am making the same mistakes. Life does not work in the way that we have been taught in by educators or even our caretakers. Gold stars are not always rewarded for doing right and sometimes the nectar of living is found in doing what most would consider wrong.
Thus, everyone is going to do what they are going do. Regardless of whether or not we agree, and despite strong opinion, we should always make space for others to make their decisions in peace without the interruption of our judgement.